I don't think I would have ever gotten it because this whole argument is alien to me.
with me and my friends/family the usual argument is to _try_ to pay the bill. "
I got it."
"
No, I got it..."
After being forced to pay half a few times, I developed a number of sneaky manuevers, such as feigning a restroom trip only to hand my card to the waiter elsewhere in the restaurant and similar misdirection tactics... one time I showed up first, so I just instructed the waiter that no matter what else was said at the table, I was paying for everything. so we handed him three cards but only receipt came back. one time I feigned "
giving in"
and letting a friend pay because I had to leave early. so I paid on the way out and got an angry email the next day...
though my best was the time with this one lady who had been tricked several times too many and wouldn't let me leave or hand her card back... she insisted I take her card to pay for half.
which was her mistake because there I was holding the check thing and the two cards inside it.
holding the check thing so she couldn't see my index finger, I said "
put half on this card"
(pointing at mine) and then "
and put half on this card"
... moving my hand up but my finger down so that it still pointed at my card. then I turned towards the waiter to hand him the check and gave him a small wink. waiter understood. another round to me
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